Can I Save My Marriage or is it Too Late?
If a couple is willing to put in the effort to repair their marriage or their relationship, it is Never too late, but that does not mean you should put off repairing it that will only make the road to recovery so much harder. In many instances couples just need help communicating, rebuilding the romance, or putting the fun back into their lives. In other instances it is more severe such as the need to rebuild trust due to infidelity, lies, or hurt feelings. Whatever the reason is, if the intent is to build a happy relationship, marriage, living together, or dating then working with a relationship coach can bring you that connection and bond you want and deserve.
Too often people give up on their relationship to quickly. They feel unsatisfied, ignored, or unappreciated. However, just because he doesn’t remember to take out the trash or want to help around the house doesn’t mean he doesn’t care. Or the fact that it seems she is always upset with you, as though nothing you do is good enough or right. Even couples who have gone a year or more without sex can bring life, love, and romance back to their relationship.
First things first, give your partner the benefit of the doubt. Believe that the person you chose to spend the rest of your life with does not want to hurt you. Be understanding and compassionate. Second, keep things in perspective and be willing to forgive. Stop working so hard on remembering every bad thing they ever did to you. Start remembering the good. Third, don’t be afraid to apologize, it is not a sign of weakness, but rather it comes from a place of strength. It is the strength to demonstrate that saving your relationship is that important to you. Speak to a professional who can help you repair your relationship before it is too late. Call me at (480)433-2800 to make an appointment to get started.